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Poly Group Dates
« on: April 28, 2012, 10:02:05 PM »
So you and your spice decide to go out.  How do you handle your date?  Do you hide it and pretend to be with only one?  Or do you all act like you are just friends?  Or are you all open about it?

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Re: Poly Group Dates
« Reply #1 on: April 29, 2012, 09:08:35 AM »
We don't have young children, so it has always been important to us to live openly. We ARE friends, so from the outside, I am sure that that is what we look like--a group of friends enjoying each other's company.  We do like to "shock" people from time to time. When Bud was in the hospital, K, S and I all came to visit him together, and when his nurse asked who we were, we told her we were his wives without even blinking. Same thing applies when we go out to eat. If we are asked, we answer honestly. It is just how we roll. I wish every poly family could be able to live openly. Maybe someday...

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Re: Poly Group Dates
« Reply #2 on: April 29, 2012, 04:17:50 PM »
Even if we didn't have young children, we would still need to keep our careers in mind. So in our town, we all act like friends when we go out.  We use to take several out of town trips so that we could all act a trio, but due to finances, we had to cut back on those.  We havn't had an out of town trip in years.
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