This is OUR brutal truth, at least --
Here we sit, being poly-minded (lol) for at least 6 years or so.
And there is no one on the horizon.
We try our bests not to have the "searching for unicorns" issues --
My husband finds attractive what HE finds attractive. We are not talking magazine models or video vixens or anything. What most attracts my husband is an amazing mind. If you're a 6 physically, and you've got an awesome mind and you're a nice person, a STRONG person, you're suddenly a 9 lol.
We are also very happy with each other, we have a good time, lots of laughs, lots of deep discussions and debates and opinions tossed around, we love to talk to each other, I read to him, we plan business ventures together, etc.
I think part of it is that, we HARDLY look, really. We don't ever actively seek.
Only like, 3 times has a woman crossed our radar where I'm like "You HAVE to talk to her, she's great" or he's like "I have a crush on so-n-so". In 6 years, it's been THAT rare.
And with all the videos I post about poly on youtube, with all the likes and with all the friends we have in this lifestyle, single and married --
only one person has actively pursued US.
I am lonely, in my womanhood today. Right now. I am missing a sisterwife that I do not have.
And I am trying to come to grips with the fact that we may never have that relationship, that person that is THE fit for this family.
Those of you that are feeling similar at times, you may have to come to grips with that, too.
I just wanted to say that. In the BRUTAL truths section.
Love you all.